James, Jimmy, bruv the list of names goes on, words cannot even begin to start to explain just how much you mean to both myself and Charlotte, but especially to me. If there is another guy who is more genuine than yourself or more of a gentleman than you are then he must be truly saintly. I have shared so many adventures with this big guy, adventures that slowly started in high school and which grew into our university careers and on to this very day. Some adventures will probably never be mentioned again other than between ourselves and some adventures will remain just plain good best mate banter from singing and dancing till the wee hours of the morning through to sitting in a pub watching the footy and having a beer. There are very few people who know me as well as Jimmy does and we have been there for each other through the darkest of days through to the happiest of days and for that I am thankful and know I can count on you to get Charlotte and I through our biggest day. James is my best man for many a good reason. We have had so many ridiculous adventures over the years.
Kirsti, also known as my best friend and my blondie (which every brunette needs). She has played a very special role in my life, as well as, our journey. We met at Wits while studying teaching together and have only grown closer since then. She is my go to person when I need sound advice and a good laugh. We love to share teaching stories, shop, give each other life advice, as well as, to take crazy pictures. Kirsti was there for me from day one when I met the man of my dreams. I am so honoured to have her as my maid of honour and lifetime friend.
Charlene, also known as 'C' is one of my closest friends. We have known each other since our high school days in Grade 9. Charlene is the type of friend who I can phone at any hour to come and be with me, and she will come to my rescue straight away. Charlene is known as my "home friend", as most of our time together includes sleepovers, popcorn and a movie, as well as the occasional trip to DisChem and Pick 'n Pay. I am truly blessed to have this sweet lady at my side, as a bridesmaid on my wedding day, as well as a friend who is always by my side in life.
Jen, Jenna is Allan's sister and my future sister-in-law. Our relationship took time to blossom, as Jen was naturally very protective of Allan's heart and weary of me. However, as time has passed we have grown into good friends and I definitely see Jen as my sister. We have shared lots of chats, laughs and special holidays together. Although Jen lives far away in London, she is one of mine and Allan's biggest supporters. She is a beautiful and radiant woman who will always go out of her way for those she loves. I can't wait to have her by my side on our wedding day.
Seka or Seeks is like a second sister to Allan, and so it was difficult to win over her heart at first, as she was also very protective over Allan. However, after many braai's, outings and holidays together, Seka and I have become good friends. We often spend time together on the weekends chatting and sharing advice and stories. Seka is a giving person who looks out for those she cares about. I am so excited to have her by my side as a bridesmaid on my wedding day, and to have her beautiful daughter, Mila, as our flower girl.
Dad, Daddy, Pop pops and Mr Mountain aka my dad Jeff. You are incredibly special to Charlotte and I, you have supported our relationship from day one and have never been far away when we have needed advice or someone to turn to. You are instrumental in making our special day a huge success and we know we will have your utmost support going forward. You have helped mould me into the young man I am today and cannot thank you enough for everything always.
Mom, Mommy but beyond that one of my best friends. Again you have been one of mine and Charlotte's biggest supporters and have always gone out of your way to make us the couple we are today. You bought me into the world and have made me the man I am today, words cannot even come to my mind but thank you and we know you'll support us in our journey.
My Pops/ Popsy and Dad. My dad has the kindest heart and will do anything for his children. I am so blessed that God chose him to be my dad. He is full of love, encouragement and advice. He is also very supportive of Allan and I, and has done a lot for both of us throughout our relationship. For 7 years my dad has taken on both the father and mother role in our household and he has done an amazing job! Thank you Popsy for all you do for Allan and I, and all you will continue to do. We are both so blessed to have you as our Pops and future Pops. We also appreciate all you do for us. I can't wait to have my Dad walk me down the aisle and for us to have our Dad and Daughter dance on our special day.
Michelle is my amazing Step-Mom. God really answered my prayers when he sent her to be in our lives. She has taken on the motherly role in my life. She is always there to give Allan and I love, guidance and support. She was one of the first people (along with Kirsti) to know when I was meeting Allan for the first time. Thank you for all you do for us! I can't wait to have you apart of our big day.
My Momsy was full of happiness and always very excitable! She would have been overjoyed by our wedding and would have been so involved. She was not just my Mom, but my best friend too. Seven years ago she was called home to heaven and not a day goes by where I don't think about her and miss her. She never got the opportunity to meet Allan, but I'm sure she would have loved him to bits. It is going to be so difficult not having her in person at our wedding day, but I know she will be there in spirit. We miss you and love you!!
It's me Allan, Ally Wally Scally Wag, Ally, Mother Trucker Joe and Al. I am considered in every way and by most to be a nutcase, the joker, the one who cares and loves like mad and would literally kill for anyone who is close to me. I am the life of any party, the one who rocks up with a bottle of Jager in hand with the music pumping and wearing a smile that seldomly dies. Most importantly I am the lucky guy who gets to marry Charlotte.
Hi, it's me... the bride to be! I'm a caring and kind person with a genuinely soft heart. I love spending time with those close to me by shopping, watching a movie or having a piece of cake over tea. Most importantly... I'm marrying the man of my dreams soon, and I can't wait!