Andrew and I are both very sorry we can't make it.  Somehow, have a great time without us and thanks very much for including us!  Best wishes and much love,Bob and Andrew Packer

I'm so sorry I'm going to miss it. I tried to make it work but it's turning out to be tougher than I thought. I am so deeply moved and honored that you wanted to include me on your special day. It really means a lot to me. 

I can't wait to celebrate the happy couple on their special day! Let's get this par-tay started! I love you guys!