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Amy & Jon

May 20, 2023

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May 19 & 20 | 2023

Events
Fri
May 19
2023

10:30 am
TO 1:30 pm

Castle Hill Inn
590 Ocean Avenue
Newport, RI 02840

(401) 849-3800
Who's Attending

Immediate family, Wedding Party members and other guests participating in the Wedding Ceremony will receive a separate, formal invitation to join us at the Ceremony Rehearsal; please meet at Castle Hill's Chalet Lawn, The rehearsal will be followed by a luncheon at The Lawn restaurant at Castle Hill Inn.

Significant others are welcome. If you are requested at the Ceremony Rehearsal and Luncheon, please RSVP accordingly on your invitation's reply card.

GETTING THERE

Directions to Castle HIll

For most guests attending the Ceremony Rehearsal, the commute will mean only a short walk from your lodgings. For anyone coming in from town, complimentary valet parking will be available at the Agassiz Mansion at Castle Hill Inn.

Dress Code

Newport Casual

Be sure to bring your sweaters, coats, and jackets. The Ceremony Rehearsal is intended to be held outside, and weather permitting, our lunch will also be al fresco where we can enjoy the view, the breeze and the sunshine! 

Fri
May 19
2023

6:00 pm
TO 10:00 pm

The Lobster Bar
31 Bowen's Wharf
Newport, RI 02840

(401) 619-2890
Who's Attending

All guests invited to the Wedding on Saturday are also invited to join us at the Lobster Bar for a classic New England Clam Bake Friday evening!

Getting There

Directions From Your Hotel

There is no parking on site at the Lobster Bar, but should you wish to drive, there are several public parking lots in downtown Newport at various walking distances from Bowen's Wharf.

NEWPORT HARBOR HOTEL
— 2 minute walk.

HOTEL VIKING
— 8 minute walk.

CASTLE HILL INN
— Complimentary trolley service has been arranged to transport guests of Castle Hill Inn to Bowen's Wharf on Friday, May 19th.

Trolley Departure: Please meet at the Agassiz Mansion at 5:15pm for transport to Bowen's Wharf.

Trolley Return: The return trolleys are scheduled to leave Bowen's Wharf at 10pm for Castle Hill Inn.

Dress Code

Newport Casual

Nautical inspired but not required ;)

Jeans are as welcome as sailor pants at the Lobster Bar, but we would love if guests still chose a tailored look along with them; collared shirts, sweaters, or even a captain's jacket if that's your thing! We also suggest comfortable footwear; we'll all be taking the cobblestone and brick walkways through Bowen's Wharf to get to the Lobster Bar.

Sat
May 20
2023

4:30 pm
TO 11:00 pm

Castle Hill Inn
590 Ocean Avenue
Newport, RI 02840

(401) 849-3800
WHO'S ATTENDING

Formal Invitations Forthcoming

Please expect a formal wedding invitation to arrive via the post within the first few months of 2023.

SCHEDULE OF EVENTS

The Wedding

Ceremony
The ceremony will begin at half past four o'clock in the afternoon.

Cocktails & Hors-d'œuvres
Immediately following the ceremony.

Reception
Dinner service will begin at approximately half past six o'clock in the evening and will be followed by an evening of dancing.

GETTING THERE

Trolley Service To Be Provided

Complimentary trolleys will be running round trip from downtown Newport to Castle Hill Inn. While trolleys will only be departing from our designated hotels, guests staying nearby are also welcome to opt into the trolley service. Please indicate on your invitation's reply card which stop you would like to depart from.


DOWNTOWN NEWPORT — Trolleys will be departing from both Hotel Viking and Newport Harbor Hotel & Marina.

Trolley Departure: Please meet at the hotel selected on your reply card at 3:30pm for transport to Castle Hill Inn.

Last Trolley Return: While we expect at least one trolley will depart Castle Hill Inn before the evening's festivities conclude, the last trolley to depart Castle Hill Inn for downtown Newport will do so at 11:00pm.


CASTLE HILL INN — Short walk to the Chalet Lawn.

Dress Code

Black Tie

Our wedding will be a formal affair and black tie attire is requested, but we encourage everyone (ladies in particular!) to embrace the colorful palette of the spring season!

Please note that the ceremony will be held outdoors, rain or shine. While the seating area will be tented overhead if we expect inclement weather, the area may still be quite cool. Please check the forecast prior to attending and be sure to bring any layers you may need.

WEDDING PARTY
Bridesmaids
Amanda Willenbacher
Amanda Willenbacher
Matron of Honor

Little known fact: Amy and Amanda once considered signing up to compete in the Amazing Race, and they gave some serious thought as to what that audition tape might need to include. It’s a good bet that these two would be entertaining to watch; born only 22 months apart, Amy and Amanda have developed hallmark characteristics that only sisters would share. Years of squabbles made them experts in the art of laying it all out on the table (often loudly) and then picking it back up and getting on with things at record speed (forgive and forge on!). They don’t just talk fast either (it may as well be its own language), as a result of the famous (infamous?) Taub family driving skills a high-stakes betting ring would probably emerge over who got to take the wheel on a given leg of the race. Does the next challenge have them moving random furniture? Maybe they need to dig a hole while solving a puzzle? At the roadblock will they have to clean every last bit of something without missing a spot? Their teamwork was honed over many a “Taub Family Fun Day” — they would be front runners every time.

These two know and understand each other better than most ever could, sometimes they don’t even need all of the necessary words to be said, they just get it (probably best not to let them be on the same team for board game night). They’ve also seen one another through a lot of change, learning to allow and encourage each other to grow. Amy has watched Amanda blossom over the last several years since she became a mother, and is so proud of the patient and gracious woman she has become in the process. These two may never compete in the Amazing Race, but as far as Amy is concerned, getting to be sisters means they’ve already won.



Kelly Taub
Kelly Taub
Bridesmaid

Amy’s youngest sister is a rare creative talent; from the spectacular sounds she can project from her tiny frame, the grace with which she plays any instrument she picks up, to her well-honed artistic vision — the only thing more impressive than the magic she can capture through a lens is the person behind the camera. The empathy she has for others is off the charts, and it’s her understanding and compassion for those around her that have brought her closer to both Amy and Jon, evolving over time from sister into friend. These two ladies have been all but following one another around New York City for almost a decade, never living more than a few blocks apart.

Jennifer Halvorson
Jennifer Halvorson
Bridesmaid

Jennifer, a professional glass artist and professor, embodies many of the same qualities as her chosen medium — brilliance, strength, focus and subtlety. From an early age she used her hands to shape raw materials into beautiful pieces of art; but it was her words, determination and actions which shaped her brother, Jonathan, into a more mature and polished person.

From their first meeting, Amy has admired how thoughtful, patient and perceptive Jennifer is — especially as they are qualities so different from her own! The old saying “those who can’t do, teach” has no relevance as far as Jenny is concerned; when it comes to “doing” she is one of the very best, and as a teacher she is a very rare talent indeed (both in and outside of the classroom). As the oldest of three sisters, Amy is so grateful to welcome Jenny as her older sister; excited for all she has yet to learn!

Anglea Lehn-Christensen
Anglea Lehn-Christensen
Bridesmaid

Cue the romantic comedy soundtrack and get ready for a meet-cute! Angela was out shopping when she saw the perfect leather bag, but just as she started to move towards it another woman scooped it up. As luck would have it, she spotted an identical one just a few minutes later; she grabbed her lovely bag, joined the checkout line, and then realized she was standing right behind the bag snatcher woman! But any frustration she had felt towards her quickly dissolved as Amy turned around with a wink and said “you have great taste.” They walked out of that shop with their matching bags and plans for drinks that evening.

A decade later, Angela and Amy have found that their fast friendship is one built to last. As busy as she gets with her career at the United Nations (Amy is so proud of her), and even though Klaus’ work has taken them halfway around the world, Angela has always been there — ready with a generous ear, a caring smile and her sage advice.

Caroline Maloney
Caroline Maloney
Bridesmaid

Caroline is the bride’s leading partner in crime and fellow female protagonist in almost all of Amy’s most epic adventures; these two are a powerful dynamic duo. Almost 15 years ago they happened into the same yoga class, and it took Amy only two more to decide that Caroline would be her best friend. Amy asked her out on a post-class lady date and the rest is history — a history filled with the highs, lows and all of the little things in between that have forged the incredible bond of friendship and sisterhood that these two share.

There are few people Amy has seen work as hard for as long as Caroline. Her brilliance and resilience are quite simply remarkable; and that she chose to apply those qualities to a challenging career as a surgeon is something we can all be grateful for. She has the capacity to take that on and still have space to be such a wonderful friend — and she does so with no short supply of delightfully dry and quick wit!

Christie Marchese
Christie Marchese
Bridesmaid

In Christie, Amy has found a fellow change agent committed to making the world a better place. Christie’s entrepreneurial efforts (Picture Motion and now Kinema!) give scale to important voices that need to be heard — Amy and Jon are both immeasurably proud of her and the work she does. But it certainly isn’t all work and no play! Christie and Amy will often be found chatting at a new restaurant, lurking in a jazz bar, discussing politics over cocktails or debating what life would be like if they were in fact witches (their friendship made even more exceptional by the fact that they aren’t even in the same Hogwarts House!).

Amy grows more impressed with Christie every time they get together, and it isn’t her accomplishments that leave such an impression. Christie’s kindness, candor and humility have opened up a world of conversation that always leaves Amy feeling seen and understood... An evening with Christie means returning home happier, smarter and a little more whole.

Leann Shively
Leann Shively
Bridesmaid

With her amazing off-roading skills, determination and fierce competitive spirit, you might mistake Leann for a Taub. And after she was crowned undisputed winner of Musical Pool Floats at Amy and Jon’s engagement party, even Jon was convinced she must be an immediate relation of Amy’s. However, despite some extensive genealogy research, the bride has found no connection. She may not be a sister by blood, but Leann has easily and quickly become a part of Amy’s chosen family.

In Leann, Amy has found a fellow adventurer, and life has been made so much more fun! Now Amy isn’t looking around to find she is the only female raising her hand when someone asks “who wants to go jump off that cliff!?” (or drive a buggy over those dunes, or leap off of the high ledge of that waterfall, or bungee into that volcano out of a helicopter… you get the idea). This woman truly is a marvel; she possesses incredible strength that she somehow manages to balance with uncanny grace and gentleness. Despite all of the outrageous and fantastic stories Amy has heard about Leann, it is how deeply she cares about others that Amy noticed first. It is all of those things and more that made them such great friends, right from the start.

Sarah Levitt
Sarah Levitt
Bridesmaid

Sarah is one of the groom’s closest and longest friendships. It was only a few short months after Jon moved to New York in 2007 that he met Sarah. Since then, they have ruled over the NYC bar trivia circuit, sang along to almost every Broadway show and have been each other’s wingman countless times.

It’s no surprise that when he had to design the perfect ring and find the absolute right stone, Sarah is who he called. Sarah welcomed Amy into the friend family like few others could; with her bright smile, generous spirit, and her always-in-your-corner love and loyalty, it took her approximately 10 minutes to win Amy over too.

Groomsmen
Christopher Shively
Christopher Shively
Best Man

If the measure of a good life is the person who does the most exciting things in their time on Earth, then Chris Shively is truly living the best life. As Jon looks back on his greatest adventures over the past decade (learning to ski, Ironman, Haymakers For Hope), there is always one constant – Chris. He’s the guy who always shows up and always inspires you to be your best self. When he is around Chris, anything – and Jon means anything – is possible.

Gina Cavallo
Gina Cavallo
Groomslady

When past generations imagined future female leaders it was Gina they had in mind (and damn would they be proud!). While others may cut corners or shrink from responsibility, Gina stands taller in the face of adversity - owning her truth, and doing so in red-soled stilettos.

Many know her as a Boss, but Amy and Jon feel so fortunate to know so many more sides of her. Gina is compassionate, fights for the rights of others and is a steadfast friend. Whether Jon is celebrating victory, wrestling with a tough decision or having a bad day, Gina is always one of his first phone calls. She usually knows just the right thing to say and that all of these situations call for great champagne.

Tim Price
Tim Price
Groomsman

Tim has been the “older brother” taking care of Jon since he moved to New York City in 2007. A senior statesman of the advertising world, Tim is credited with teaching Jon how to negotiate with NY landlords, throw epic rooftop parties, order the perfect steak, drink the right wine, ride the subway, give the Bronx cheer to the Boston Red Sox from bleachers at Old Yankee Stadium and all the other necessary life skills that Big Brothers teach — some of which may be better not to mention here ;)

Joe Marchese
Joe Marchese
Groomsman

A friendship forged over nine innings at a baseball game in the Bronx has come a long way over 12+ years — but as far as Jon and Joe are concerned, this game is still in the early innings. While they met at a baseball game, you’re more likely to find these two at a local haunt (if Jon is choosing location) or one of NYC’s best restaurants (if Joe is picking) discussing every aspect of the marketing industry or planning some new adventure. The conversation has matured, the size of their ambitions have grown larger and the whiskey has been traded for Komos (amazing Tequila), but their shared passion for doing brilliant work and making a lasting impact has remained constant.

Sean Finnegan
Sean Finnegan
Groomsman

Boss, Mentor, Coach and Chairman of Jon’s Personal Board of Directors; Sean has played all of these roles and more over the past two decades. After a chance meeting at an industry event Sean hired Jon to work for him directly, a move that dramatically accelerated the entire trajectory of Jon’s professional life. While Sean has done a lot for Jon’s career, his steadfast friendship and honest advice have been even more powerful; they have shaped Jon into the empathetic leader he is so proud to be today.

CJ King
CJ King
Groomsman

It's no secret that Jon loves the University of Michigan. But it’s not the football team, the basketball team, the campus or even the degree that mean so much to him, it's the amazing lifelong friendships that he’s graduated with. These two were fast friends right from opening orientation where CJ (the math whiz and ever patient teacher) taught Jon NPV calculations, ensuring he survived MP’s finance class. From then on they were — and are — inseparable teammates. CJ has impressive quantitative skills, direct leadership, time management and does an amazing job being an involved dad to four children. He is an inspiration and role model for how Jon wants to be in both his professional and personal life.

Anuj Dahiya
Anuj Dahiya
Groomsman

The only thing better than traveling the world to see exciting new places is the amazing humans you meet along the way. You could travel around the world 10 times over and you still wouldn’t find anyone as caring, talented and thoughtful as Anuj.

These two friends were first connected when Anuj accepted a role at Starcom China with Jon. They worked shoulder to shoulder for two years on P&G business and have continued their close partnership at Mondelez International when Anuj joined the company in 2018. What a gift to work alongside friends like Anuj — with him around, the job never feels like work.


Josh Abrams
Josh Abrams
Groomsman

Josh’s ability to see potential in and deeply care for others, and his willingness to do anything for a friend makes him truly special. Whether it was spending hours just hanging out in Duke’s bar when Jon knew only five people in New York City or lifting spirits when he was down, there was no length Josh wasn’t willing to go to get a smile, a laugh or to create joy. When others say there is no way that is going to happen or give a flat out “No”, Josh Abrams says “Well, let’s figure it out; Sure, let’s give it a go; or Okay, sounds good!” That approach has led him to work at some of the world’s most successful advertising start ups and be the trusted friend that everybody loves.

Brian Wallace
Brian Wallace
Officiant

Elephant, Whale, Badger, Camel... Over the past three years visiting 66 Water Street, Brian’s animal spirit has taken on these forms and so many more. While the animal spirit will change to suit the day and the lesson he needs to learn, some things remain constant. Brian is absolutely the best birthday toast giver, the best design client Amy has ever taken on (he listens, and trusts), the best person to hit golf balls with, and there is nobody that Amy and Jon would rather sit around and enjoy a bottle of wine with while using their diverse lexicon of accents. They can't think of anyone who they would be happier to have officiate their wedding — providing of course, he keeps his promises to Jon’s mom ;)

Little Ones
Alice Forsdike
Alice Forsdike
Flower Girl
Avery Willenbacher
Avery Willenbacher
Flower Girl
Ethan Forsdike
Ethan Forsdike
Ring Bearer
Logan Willenbacher
Logan Willenbacher
Ring Bearer
Family
Diana Taub
Diana Taub
Mother of the Bride
Timothy Taub
Timothy Taub
Father of the Bride
Sue Halvorson
Sue Halvorson
Mother of the Groom
Scott Halvorson
Scott Halvorson
Father of the Groom
Mark Willenbacher
Mark Willenbacher
Brother-in-Law of the Bride
John Forsdike
John Forsdike
Brother-in-Law of the Groom
INSPIRATION
High Society
Movie Night
Date Night
"Now You Has Jazz"
Dancing in the Sand
Newport
Newport
Hotels

Accommodations in Newport

We have arranged three hotel blocks in Newport:
1. Newport Harbor Hotel
2. Hotel Viking
3. Castle Hill Inn

We will be providing complimentary trolley service to and from these locations for wedding events over the course of the weekend.

If you choose to seek alternate accommodations, we suggest choosing something in close proximity to one of these three hotels so that you may still partake in the trolley service.

Our hotel blocks are now full, but rooms may still be available at each hotel's current seasonal rates. We have also provided a list of additional recommended hotels below.


Additional Hotel Suggestions in Newport:
— Brick Market Lofts (2-3 Bedrooms)
— Outlook Inn
— Chart House Inn
— Serenity Inn
— The Inns on Bellevue
— Paw on Pelham
— The Crow’s Nest
— AirBnb


If you have any questions about accommodations please don't hesitate to reach out to Amy or Jon!

Getting There

Air, Land & Sea

FROM NEW YORK CITY
Driving is the most efficient way to get from NYC to Newport (and leaving between rush hours certainly helps!), but there are public transportation options as well.
  •  By Car: 3 - 5 hour drive. (Leaving Brooklyn at 5am to avoid traffic, Amy has done the drive in 3 hours flat).
  •  By Train: Amtrak can be taken to either Providence or Kingston, Rhode Island. Buses are available at both stations for transfer to Newport, trains to Newport are available from Providence only (4.5 - 5.5 hours).


FROM LONG ISLAND
We recommend driving onto one of the north shore ferries, rather than driving around through New York City.

  •  Port Jefferson Ferry: 2 - 2.5 hour drive from Bridgeport.
  •  Orient Point Ferry: 1 - 1.5 hour drive from New London.

If you wish not to drive beyond Long Island, there is the long, albeit scenic option of parking at Orient Point and taking two ferry connections: Orient Point to New London, New London to Block Island, Block Island directly to Newport Harbor.


FROM FURTHER AFAR

There are several international and domestic airports in the northeast that allow for access to Newport.
  •  Providence Airport (PVD): The closest airport to Newport and Rhode Island's international hub. We recommend either a car rental or taking a 30-45 minute taxi into town ($80 - $100). Trains and buses are available for transfer through Providence (2 - 2.5 hours).
  •  Boston's Logan Airport (BOS): Either a 1.5 - 2.5 hour drive, or connect to Boston's South Station for a train to Providence; transfer there for the train to Newport (3 - 3.5 hours).
  • Newark Liberty (EWR): Take the AirTrain to Newark Penn Station; Amtrak can be taken to either Providence or Kingston, Rhode Island. Buses are available at both stations for transfer to Newport, trains available from Providence (5.5 - 6.5 hours).
  •  LGA, JFK, ISP or BDL: Transfer can be made via train, bus or taxi to New York Penn Station for Amtrak. For travel by rental car from NYC or Long Island, please see directions above (2 hour drive from BDL).

Getting Around Town

Local Transportation

WALK: While downtown Newport is very walkable, alternate transportation may be needed if you wish to explore other parts of Aquidneck Island; Ocean Drive, Cliff Walk, Sachuest Point, etc.

BIKE: All of the hotels we have blocks at offer complimentary bike rentals. We highly recommend a scenic morning ride along Bellevue Avenue and Ocean Drive!

UBER: Uber and Lyft are both available in Newport, but our experience is that they aren't as reliable as in major cities. Plan to wait up to 15 minutes for a car and to experience further delays as well as increased costs at peak times and throughout weekends.

DRIVING: Newport has a plethora of pay-to-park lots and metered city parking options, but they can fill up quite quickly — especially on busy weekends like ours. We recommend only driving when necessary or doing so earlier in the day when parking will be more readily available.

SCOOTERS: If biking isn't your thing but you still want to tour around town, there are scooters for rent by the hour at several locations! Trip Advisor's 10 Best Scooter Rentals 

Dining in Newport

Amy & Jon's Favorites

Clark Cooke House — Picturesque 18th-century edifice offering plenty in the way of classic New England food and drink. Reserve well in advance.

The Red Parrot — Casual but lively bar scene with a bar menu to match, with everything from pizza to surf and turf.

The Black Pearl — Bar and restaurant with nautical decor, famed chowder and a busy patio nestled in the heart of Bowen's Wharf.

Benjamin's — Cozy, casual tri-level steak and seafood restaurant with a raw bar, cocktails and views of the harbor.

The Mooring — Take in the Narragansett Bay views at this upscale seafood destination with outdoor dining and a fantastic Lobster Roll.

White Horse Tavern — Farm-to-table American cuisine and history-inspired rum drinks in a historic setting dating back to 1673.

Things to Do

What to See in Newport

Gilded Age Mansions — Take a self-guided tour through the legendary Gilded Age properties along Bellevue Avenue. At the Breakers, we recommend picking up a copy of the kids' guide; who doesn't love a good scavenger hunt!?

Cliff Walk — For a leisurely stroll between the ocean and the back yards of the mansions, begin your journey at Memorial Boulevard. For a more rocky and adventurous route, begin at Bailey's Beach (this path only recommended for the sure-footed!). 

Audrain Museum — "The museum, with access to collections containing over 350 cars and motorcycles ranging from brass era pre-War cars to Supercars of the 2000s, displays three or four fresh and thematic exhibits each year to entertain all generations!"

Hiking in Aquidneck Island — From light and leisurely scenic walks along the coastline to moderately intense trails in picturesque New England forests, here are some spots to get outdoors in and around Newport.

Bike Ocean Drive — The round trip journey from town is a hilly 7-10 miles, depending on the route, but the views and the scenery more than make up for the effort. For a shorter ride, first drive your bikes over to Brenton State Park and begin from there.

Sailing Excursions — This is just one of the many sailing excursion companies setting off from Newport's many wharfs. From classic wooden ships to modern sailing lessons, anything is possible if the weather allows.

Historical Boat Tours — For a less thrilling jaunt at sea, we recommend taking one of the several historical boat tours setting off across Narragansett Harbor.

Shopping — Newport is chock full of antique shops, local artisans, specialty shops and a plethora of bars and restaurants. We recommend wandering up and down Thames Street and then finishing up at Bowen's Wharf.

Golf — There are several private and public golf courses in Newport, Aquidneck Island, Jamestown and nearby in Providence. Whatever your pleasure, we recommend booking well in advance!

The Volvo Ocean Race

The Pinnacle Event of the Sport of Ocean Racing

It was announced that the Volvo Ocean Race will be stopping in Newport in May of 2023; the 5th of 9 stopovers in their race around the world, and the only port in the United States. 

While our Wedding Ceremony will be taking place during the Newport In-Harbor Race on Saturday the 20th, there are still other race-related events you can visit while you're in town.

Fort Adams State Park will host the pop-up (more like takeover!) Race Village. See the boats up close, learn about the sport, and maybe even meet some of the racers! About an hour walk from town; a short Uber or bike ride; ferry service.

Packing List

New England In May

Newport is as charming as its weather can be unpredictable. A calm, sunny afternoon can quickly turn into a chilly squall. If we're lucky, we may likely see warm and sunny afternoons in the low 70's, but when the sun sets you might find yourself grabbing for a winter coat — or at least a good jacket over a cozy sweater — especially if the coastal wind picks up.

Our key packing recommendations are to check the forecast and to pack layers! Even if the outlook is fantastic, you'll be glad that you came to Newport prepared.

Ceremony
Ceremony
Program

Order of Events

WELCOME

Please refrain from taking any photos or videos from this moment until the conclusion of the ceremony. You may continue to view this program on your device.


PROCESSIONAL 

"Stand By Me"; Ben E. King

"You're My Best Friend"; Queen

"What A Wonderful World"; Louis Armstrong


INVOCATION

To be delivered by Brian Wallace


READINGS

1. The Gift of Love, 1 Corinthians 13. To be read by the Bride's cousin, Ashley Clasen.

2. Robert Fulghum's All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten. To be read by the Groom's friend and classmate, Tom Shearer.

3. Excerpt from The History of Love by Nicole Krauss. To be read by the Bride's mentor and friend Louise Newsome.


WINE CEREMONY

To be facilitated by the couple's dear friend, Alyssa Guberman.


DECLARATION OF INTENT

The exchanging of vows and rings.


PRONOUNCEMENT


RECESSIONAL

"This Will Be, An Everlasting Love", Natalie Cole

Honored Guests

Our Family & Wedding Party

In order of procession...

Brian Wallace; Officiant

Jon Halvorson; The Groom
Josh Abrams; Groomsman
Anuj Dahia; Groomsman
CJ King; Groomsman
Gina Cavallo; Groomslady
Joe Marchese; Groomsman
Chris Shively; The Best Man

Scott & Sue Halvorson; The Groom’s Parents
Diana Taub, escorted by Tracy Taub; The Bride’s Mother & Uncle

Leann Shively; Bridesmaid
Jennifer Halvorson; Bridesmaid  & The Groom’s Sister
Kelly Taub; Bridesmaid & The Bride’s Sister
Christie Marchese; Bridesmaid
Angela Lehn-Christensen; Bridesmaid
Sarah Levitt; Bridesmaid
Caroline Maloney; Bridesmaid

Ethan Forsdike & Logan Willenbacher; Ring Bearers & The Couple's Nephews
Avery Willenbacher & Alice Forsdike; Flower Girls & The Couple's Nieces

Amanda Willenbacher; Matron of Honor & The Bride’s Sister

Amy Taub, escorted by Timothy Taub; The Bride & Her Father


Ashley Clasen's Reading

The Gift of Love, 1 Corinthians 13

If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Tom Shearer's Reading

Robert Fulghum's All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten

All of what I really need to know about how to live, and what to do, and how to be, I learned in Kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sandbox at nursery school.

These are the things I learned…
Share everything.
Play fair.
Don't hit people.
Put things back where you found them.
Clean up your own mess.
Don't take things that aren't yours.
Say sorry when you hurt somebody.
Wash your hands before you eat.
Flush.
Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you. Give them to someone who feels sad. Live a balanced life.
Learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day.
Take a nap every afternoon.
Be aware of wonder.
Remember the little seed in the plastic cup? The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.

Everything you need to know is in there somewhere.
And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.

Louise Newsome's Reading

Excerpt from The History of Love by Nicole Krauss

Once upon a time, there was a boy. He lived in a village that no longer exists, in a house that no longer exists, on the edge of a field that no longer exists, where everything was discovered, and everything was possible. A stick could be a sword, a pebble could be a diamond, a tree, a castle. Once upon a time, there was a boy who lived in a house across the field, from a girl who no longer exists. They made up a thousand games. She was queen and he was king. In the autumn light, her hair shone like a crown. They collected the world in small handfuls, and when the sky grew dark, they parted with leaves in their hair.

Once upon a time, there was a boy who loved a girl, and her laughter was a question he wanted to spend his whole life answering.

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