After years of being in the exact same place at the exact same time but never actually being introduced to each other, Carly and T.J. officially met in 2018 at their friend Pete Frates’ annual polar plunge. With a huge network of mutual friends and similar sense of humor, they had an immediate connection. Since that day in December, Carly and T.J. have embraced the expression, “When you know, you know,” and quickly built a loving and supportive relationship that makes them happier with each new day.