My name is Naomi and If our faces didn't give it away already, I am one of Selby's younger sisters :). I can't believe the big day is slowly approaching and my appachechy is officially going to be a married woman! To my first best friend, role model, second mom, personal diary, and everything in between - The day you've been waiting for is almost here! Though i'm already sad that I'm going to be losing my roommate of 25 years, I couldn't be happier and more excited for you. I'm blessed to have someone like you as my big sister and I know you'll be nothing but wonderful as you step into this new chapter and role in your life. I think it makes it easier that you chose such an amazing person as your other half (and my official big brother!) to go through it all with. I Can't wait to be by your side as you marry the love of your life and to celebrate the night away! I love you ummmmaa <3
You all know her as Selby, but I know her as Appachechy. I believe the best day of appachechys life, besides her meeting “Andrew, let’s go to the village” was when we met at the hospital about 20 years ago. Little did I know we would share a bunk bed together five years later, or that she would lock me out the house for changing the tv channel when I was only 6 years old, and then become my Kumon teacher and still not give me answers to any of my homework -___-
As the years went on and I got older and less annoying (jk, still annoying ;)) Appachechy became someone that I look up to and can always count on to make my day a little brighter. It has been years in the making and I cannot wait for Appachechy to finally marry the Appachettai I always wanted :)
Hey guys, I’m Selby’s baby sister, AKA her first child :) The time has FINALLY come for my Appachechy, second mom, role model, master chef, and sister to get HITCHED! Even though I won’t have you to annoy every day and watch New Girl while eating Hot Cheetos (instead of working out), I’ll always be there to teach you the latest dance moves, songs, and lingo. You taught me how to survive my middle and high school years and inspired me to follow your ways ever since I was born. You leaving me to Dallas for good is going to be surreal, but I’m glad to know that you’ll be in good hands with Andrew Chettai and that he makes you as happy as he has all of these years (I’ll be visiting every other weekend for some gulab jamun cheesecake). I can’t wait to stand by your side as all the wedding festivities begin and I officially gain a big brother! I love you so much, you’re the Nick to my Schmidt <3
I first met Selby on the day she was born. :) Selby is my dad's youngest sister's first born child. She is my first "nyumini", a nickname for my cute, lovable baby cousin. Selby lived with us during the first few months of her life. I would rush home from school just to see her giggles. Over the years, I changed her diapers; cuddled with her at sleepovers; helped her with homework; taught her dance; went on family road trips with her; screamed with her at scary movies; took her & her sisters out and about to theaters, theme parks, and food/dessert hot spots; coached her on makeup tips; got her to love game nights; advised her on life; and laughed with her until we cried. Selby has grown into a beautiful, intelligent, compassionate, determined and accomplished young woman. I admire her strength, diligence and focus. She is the one teaching me new things now! When Selby first introduced me to Andrew, I smiled at his innocence. As their relationship grew from U of H days, back-to-back phone calls, to nursing school in Dallas and ooVoo video chats, I realized how happy he made her and how much the two of them are inseparable! I am proud of her decision to let him know that she's all in and let our family know that he is the one. Andrew is the God fearing, fun loving, ambitious, attentive and affectionate partner who I trust will protect and take care of Selby forever. I have observed Selby and Andrew learn a lot from each other and faithfully love one another. I am truly honored to stand by their side as they are blessed with God's sacrament of marriage. Excited to celebrate this adorable couple and get this party started! Love you both lots!!
How do you know Selby? Well you see she’s my “cousin’s cousin, we’re not technically cousins, but basically cousins” Got it? LOL I have known Selby for as long as I can remember. We grew together as fine members of the TroublesomeTrio. Meaning, we got in triple times more trouble when we were together. From sleep overs to dance practice to countless wild & mischievous nights to being there for many of each other’s firsts (some we’ll never speak of), she’s been my ride or die.
Over the years she has grown to be more than just a best friend to me, but a sister. A sister I am so proud and honored to stand by, on her big day! I know I’ve made your wedding day mostly about me, being that it’s my bridesmaid debut and all (haha) but all jokes aside I’ve never been more excited for two people to finally tie the knot #10YrsInTheMaking. I have had the privilege to watch (mostly 3rd wheel) this relationship for a very long time now, and I can honestly say you have found your perfect match. Androse, you make my bestie the happiest girl in the world, and although this is a bittersweet moment for me, I am so excited for you two to start this next chapter in life! Now #LetsToastToDroseAndJose & get this party started!
It all started in '92...
When I say diaper days, I mean literally. Selby's been my dance partner since the age of 5 (Chaiya Chaiya - we're doing a remake for the wedding) and my beautician since 13 (Walgreens eyeshadow palettes & homemade side bangs hollaaa). You can catch me crashing her VHS home videos, stealing attention from her, in typical Jenny fashion. She loved me back when I only had one eyebrow... that's how you know it's real. We lived through the Baby Phat, Aéropostale, and gaucho phases of our teens and even got our first Coach purses together. We've been through it all... & made some memories along the way.
I remember Selby calling me in college one day to tell me about her new crush Andrew ;) Little did we know she'd be on her way to meet him at the altar all these years later. It's been a long time coming. & I mean LONG. Selbs, I'm so happy you found your partner for life and can't wait to stand by your side as you marry the man of your dreams (but mostly to party hard post Covid - we have a cancelled engagement to make up for). Sleepovers will now be relocated to Dallas, sorry not sorry Andrew!
I can't believe my beautiful brown girl is getting married.
Little did I know that this girl I met Freshman year in marching band was going to be a life long friend that no matter what, encourages me, knows me better than myselfand always supports and guides my decisions.
We've been friends since being woodwind buddies from Freshman year. We complained about our sunspots and being outside because of marching band. We had algebra together, walked together between classes to gossip, and ate lunch together all throughout high school. We've celebrated many joyous occasions like spirit week and prom. My best memories of high school has been made with this girl right here ! Without you, my high school experience would have not been so enjoyable.
When Selby tore her meniscus, I was there to help her to some of her classes. She was inspired around this time to pursue something in the medical field at such a young age. Selby taught me how to dream big and to set the standard high for myself and for those around me. Selby has shown me that no matter what, you need to do things for yourself and for your future. Thank you for keeping me on track and making me realize my dreams and goals.
Right before we graduated we made our wish list guy. Selby wanted someone who would be understanding about her culture and who should have a similar culture to hers. She knew she wanted someone loyal and funny. As we went to college we still kept in touch.
Then one day, I get an ecstatic phone call from my best friend and she says she's met a guy. I have always known that he was "the one” since the beginning even if Selby didn't see it at the time. As their relationship grew, Selby and Andrew teaches us all how to be patient, how to understand each other, and to support each other in goals.
Throughout the years I have had to worry less about Selby because I know Andrew has taken such great care of her. She is madly in love with Andrew as much as she was ever since she has met him. They push each other to be better and to plan a successful future from themselves.
I am glad Selby and Andrew are getting married and I cannot wait to see the blessings that unfold from this wonderful couple!
I met Selby back in middle school and we’ve been friends ever since then! Although we went to separate high schools, we reunited when we both started working at Kumon our senior year of high school. We both ended up going to UH and joined the same sorority, so we’ve been besties ever since! She has always been there for me and I’m so excited to be a part of her wedding day! Love you selbs!
Selby & I first met back in nursing school. Not going to lie, at first I was a little intimidated since she has serious RBF but I decided to turn around and say hi! Little did I know that she would become one of my besties! From pulling all nighters, post exam celebratory sake bombs, random nights out, sprinkles cupcake runs, graduation, introducing me to my husband, and being apart of my wedding day...Selby has been a huge part of my life and I'm so honored to be by her side as her and Andrew become one. It's been a long time coming, and can't wait for the festivities to finally begin!!
Selby is the only other ghetto fabulous member in our group that I relate to on another level. One of the best things I did in nursing school was go to her apartment when i really didn't know her to go to the state fair as a group. Because of that day I now have life long friends and unforgettable memories. I admire the woman Selby has become. A boss ICU nurse, going to school to become an NP all while planning a wedding during a pandemic. Soon she’ll add great wifey to her titles. I'm so honored to be a part of Selby and Andrew's journey down the aisle. I'm so happy for you two!
Selby and I met at nursing school. We became really good friends cause it’s hard not be friends when you are going through hell together. She has always been there through the highs and lows. I realized I made a life long friend when she showed up when it mattered the most. Life hasn’t been the same without her in Dallas and I am super excited for her to move back! I’m so honored to stand by her side as she starts this new journey.
I honestly don’t know the exact moment I met Selby and Andrew, but I can’t think of a time in my life that I did not know Selby. Starting with KNA CCE at St. Alberts to dance practice for conventions, she has always been in my life. It was not until we both went to U of H and decided to pledge Sigma Sigma Rho, is when our friendship really took off. She went from being my church friend, to sister! Little did I know how vital our friendship was to our future in finding our forever happiness. After one of our sorority meetings, I really wanted to go out, but Selby wasn’t really in the mood. After begging her, she finally agreed. A few fire Pepsi’s and test tube shots from the Bronx bar (RIP), and many laughs, it somehow ended up where I introduced Selby to Andrew. Fast forward, 5 years later and Seldrew introduces me to my husband! It’s crazy how God puts the most perfect people in your life right when you need it. For me, meeting Selby and Andrew was one of those God things. I have now known Andrew for over a decade and I can honestly say he is one of the most genuine and kind hearted people I have ever met. Selby is always smiling and ready to care for others, it’s a natural instinct for her. As a friend, she is always just one text away. Selby and Andrew compliment each other so well. I am absolutely honored to stand next to you both as you vow to be roomies for life!
The 1st John to be a New York native with a southern touch. Grew up practicing the rock bottom and the stone cold stunner on Ashvin and I. Could’ve been a professional beer pong player in a different lifetime. The greatest General manager to put together A2. Nonetheless, a well educated, loving and dedicated older brother anyone could ask for, just don’t beat him in a game of halo or 2k he might rage lol. Love you man, and congratulations on getting married!
Achacha
Achacha... oh monnnnnayyy... where do I begin. Although I have known you my entire life being your youngest brother, there are still things I continuously ponder about. For example: how can one be in the bathroom for 24 hours? Or, how can one wear socks and sandals during the summer and even in bed before sleeping? Or, how must one only be able to sleep while having a tv show blasting in the background? Interesting, mundane, and weird yet fascinating. Aside from your questionable behaviors I know you to be a very determined, caring, and loving brother. An example of such traits can easily be seen when we play pong. The determination you have for the game of pong will always be unmatched, the care you have to win is iconic, and the love you show me during our sessions is as good as my recently new found love for beef fry (erachi). All jokes aside, you are an amazing brother who has always pointed me in the right direction and who has provided for me in a multitude ways. It’s an honor for me to be you’re best man and can’t wait to get gross with drose.
It all started when he asked me for a funion. I knew this guy would be trouble for the rest of my life. I remember playing Power Rangers on the sega genesis every time we would visit Dallas from NY. I may give Andrew some credit for my good looks. He was the one that fixed my India boy comb over to a tapper fade. All in all it has been a blessing to have a cousin that I can call my great friend and confidant. Selby and Andrew are perfect for each other. They care for each other as well as each other’s families. Looking forward to celebrating their wedding and seeing them thrive in their marriage.
My roots with Andrew go way back to the day we both were baptized in Kerala. Although we grew up on opposite sides of world, we were destined to be together at the age of 12. As cousins of the same age, we hung out together and was under the constant surveillance of our parents. This didn’t give us enough chance to be the bad boys but we still found a way. I am happy to see the man of the moment finally get hitched. Being born in the same family is a true blessing.
RIDE OR DIE BROTHERS FOR LIFE!
I have known Andrew for about 24 years as I am writing this now - and I am 24. Can you imagine what 24 years of degenerate behavior is like? It’s pretty unreal and I wouldn't have it any other way. Andrew has always been an older brother to me. A combination of fun and responsible. I guess being the youngest male 1st cousin comes with its perks. Playing video games, discussing school, chatting about work, partying till sunrise, and seeing each other at family get-togethers has always been something I look forward to. Now that Andrew is a healthcare professional, the free medical advice is a pretty nice bonus too. The one thing I know about Andrew and I is that we expect crazy things to happen whenever we are together (even crazier things when Ashvin and Alex are nearby). We always come out stronger though, since I know we have each other's backs. Congratulations on the wedding, Andrew. Can't wait to have someone more responsible in the family to balance us out :)
Andrew Chachen you are the first big brother figure I ever had in life. From way back when, when I couldn’t tell my left foot from my right, to this present day, you guided me in ways that only the two of us would fully understand. After all, we’re both the only eldest brothers in our houses. You showed me what it meant to be a role model when I had none. It’s honestly surreal that you’re getting married. I am so proud of you man! Just a few days ago it felt like we were playing Dragon Ball Z at Apacha’ house on star street (Vegeta is still my favorite character loll.) Now we’re all grown up. It truly is a beautiful thing. I love you brother, and I’m so excited to to watch you grow even more into a great husband, father, and leader. It’s an honor to be a groomsmen. Can’t wait to turn up with you and Selby!!!!
I consider myself lucky to have friends I can call day 1s, but sometimes you meet people later in life that become like your day 1s and Andrew is that person for me.
I first met him during his high school winter ball. I rmr he dressed real sharp, rocking hazel colored contacts and my initial thought was he was one of those Malu wannabe pretty boys. Nahhh scratch that - he was looking prrrretty AF! And it was an instant bromance. Fr, I may have hung out with him that night more than my actual date. But, that’s Andrew for ya - he doesn’t seem to go away. After that, I would later see him where we took SAT classes. At the time, Tom and I started before him and by “started” I mean... started skipping, which didn’t take Andrew too long to join in on our skipping adventures. Cant remember how the SATS actually went for him but I know he could’ve done better and maybe have even gone to a better college, instead he got left with us in Houston, where he would meet more Selbys & here we are now.
To Jose: You’re welcome lol. A top prospect of the Selberian race and couldn’t ask for anyone better for my boy (love ya, woman!)
Andrew and I first met during our freshman year of college at the University of Houston. Emerging from a cloud of axe spray came this mocha-colored gentleman wearing long socks, nike sandals, and a white shirt. After some pleasantries were exchanged and a few drinks were consumed, we found out we shared many things in common including a passion for sports, Red Baron pizzas, and Aunt Jemima. Fast forward a decade later and we have shared countless memories and adventures. Whether these are memories that have been forever ingrained in our brains or for those we cannot seem to fully remember, Andrew has always been there by my side. It is now my honor and privilege to return that favor and stand beside him for one of the most important memories of his life. Much to my surprise, he was actually able to find someone that is able to look past his 2-hour long showers and truly love and care for him enough to pay the water bill. I had known Selby Jose prior to their relationship and knew if there was anyone that I felt deserved his love, it would be her. She is one of the most caring, compassionate, and awesome individuals I have ever met - so it only makes sense that she found herself a male counterpart with those same qualities. It gives me great joy that my brother and my absolute favorite Selby in the world are finally ready to update their relationship statuses on facebook from "it's complicated" to "married." Andrew, you know I always got your back like chiroprac - I am the Wakka to your Titus and now its time for you and Yuna to continue on the adventure and write yall's story. I'm looking forward to reading the sparknotes. #LetsGetGrossWithDroseAndJose
It’s hard to believe that my friendship with Andrew has spanned over 20 years, and I’m lucky enough to be present as he marries the most important person in his life. Thinking back, I can’t stop laughing about the memories that we’ve shared. There was one church talent show that Nidhin, Andrew, and I decided to sing a “Boys II Men” song. Halfway through the song, my voice cracks on a high note, and all three of us start laughing on stage. Andrew tries to sing through our laughter, but Nidhin and I simply walk off. The curtains begin to close as Andrew stands alone on stage, and he whispers in the microphone “.....I’M SORRY!” to his parents sitting in the crowd. As the years have gone by, I’ve been blessed to see the man that Andrew has grown into today......And even though he takes a minimum of two hours in the bathroom to get ready, I can say with certainty that Selby has picked a wonderful man that will cherish and honor her for the rest of her life. I love you both, and I can’t wait to celebrate with y’all!
Androse aka Andrew Monay aka Shoeb aka Andrew John
What started out as championship belts and fobby nights out turned into a real friendship. Andrew is someone I can always count on, he might be a little late getting ready but you can guarantee that he will be there and friends like that are hard to come by. Going through college together, we experienced many of life’s highs and lows so I’m especially honored to be by his side on one of his biggest days....don’t worry, I’ll make sure to shout ‘monay please’ before he busts out one of his many questionable dance moves.
Cheers to you both!
What is there to say about Andrew? This is the guy that almost showed up late to my wedding; a wedding in which he was a groomsmen AND stayed in the same hotel as me the night before. But I guess I can't really complain about his tardiness too much considering Selby had to wait 8 YEARS for him to propose. God bless you Selby, I hope living in Houston hasn't made you forget how much of a pottan he can be sometimes.
I've known Andrew for a long time, at least 13 years by now. We've grown a lot together and our relationship has changed in many ways. We started off as acquaintances, and then become friends who grew into groomsmen. We studied for our SAT's together, from there we went to the same college at the University of Houston where we founded a fraternity together, and we both get the chance to stand with each on our wedding days. I've seen him grow from a time in 2008 when Andrew didn't know how to take a shot, to these days where he's now the first one to order one when we get inside the bar.
One thing I want to share about Andrew is that he's a very competitive and driven person. If he finds an interest for something he's all in. Any of you that have played beer pong with him don't need me to say another word. But to share one last story, I once invited him over to my house to play a board game, Settlers of Catan. Andrew and my other friends had never heard of the game before and this would be their first time playing it. As I started to explain the rules to everyone Andrew casually throws in that he stayed up the night before and watched a 45 minute world championship game on Youtube so he'd be ready to play... Who does that?!? So to sum up, while he may annoy us and will definitely keep us waiting way too often, he's also the kind of guy that you know is all in. I mean he's planning a wedding while also working on getting into CRNA school! I'm excited to be a part of this big day for you man and can't wait to celebrate!
I can’t believe the time has finally come where “My Guy” is going to tie the knot. My relationship with Andrew goes back to the childhood days of playing football and trading Pokémon cards after church on Sundays. Our bond grew in high school and throughout the college days to where I now see him as brother more than a friend. When I think back on my time knowing Andrew, one thing that stands out about all the crazy adventures is amount of laughter and happiness there was. Whether it was during our earlier years of only living a few miles away from each other to even more recently being half way across the world together, there was never a dull moment. Most importantly though, I think about how much of an impact he has had on me personally. Andrew is a man that cares deeply for the ones he loves and will do anything for them without hesitation, which I value most about our relationship. This is one of the many reasons why I know Selby has found the perfect man to spend the rest of her life with and I couldn’t be more excited for the both of you!
- Jobin