Roxi & James’s Big Day

June 17, 2023

Welcome

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We are delighted to invite you to spend our Big Day with us. All we can say this time is "third time lucky":-) Lots of fun and laughter will be involved.

This website is intended to be a resource to make known the details of our wedding and everything you need for planning and scheduling your trip.

Please visit here from time to time for updates and feel free to contact us if you need more info.

James +971 56 265 9689

Roxi +971 50 201 9205

roxanamesesan@gmail.com

Romanian weddings are an all-day event!
Fri
Jun 16
2023

5:00 pm
TO 12:00 am

Summer Garden Brilliant Meses Hotel
Piata 1 Decembrie
Zalau, Salaj Romania

+40260661050
Pre-Wedding Gathering

Super casual gathering for drinks at the Brilliant Meses outdoor terrace.

The terrace belongs to the hotel where most of our International guests will stay.

It would be great to see you there from 6 pm onwards.

Sat
Jun 17
2023

12:00 pm
TO 12:30 pm

Brilliant Meses Hotel
Zalau, Romania

Morning Of The Wedding

Romanian Wedding Traditions

The morning of the wedding usually starts with considerable noise and excitement. Traditionally, gypsy musicians would appear at the groom’s house to wake up the entire neighborhood. The idea is to announce to everyone within earshot that an important wedding is taking place that day.

This exciting beginning kicks off the journey of the groom that could lead him all over the city. This journey springs from traditional roots in the village, where the groom-to-be would travel from house to house accompanied by musicians. The entourage would grow as each neighbor then accompanied the young man through the village until he arrived at the young woman’s house, where he would ask her family for her hand in marriage.

This is the Romanian tradition but in our case, we will adopt a hybridized variation :)

James, together with his Godparents, Family, and Friends accompanied by the wedding coordinator and his team will collect the bride from her parent's house.

Depending on the number of guests desiring to participate in this event, minivans will be hired for transportation.

Sat
Jun 17
2023

1:00 pm
TO 2:30 pm

Pe Vale - The Valley
Zalau
Salaj

Ortelec, Romania

Bride’s Home

The next destination is the bride’s home, where her family and Godmother have helped her to dress for the wedding.

The groom arrives at the bride’s home together with his Godparents, Family, and Friends.

The musicians are singing traditional wedding songs - eg "Dear bride say farewell to your mom and dad" etc… In Earlier days the groom was up on a horse, now a car will do :)

The guests will be invited to taste some traditional Romanian food prepared by the bride's family.

Photographer will be present to take some group photos.

Sat
Jun 17
2023

3:00 pm
TO 4:00 pm

Ortelec Orthodox Old Church

Religious Ceremony

The wedding party reaches the church, where the priest will perform the religious ceremony which involves circling the altar for 3 times with a silver crown on both the bride and groom's heads, bride and groom tie their hands together.

Both pairs of Godparents will perform the religious ritual together with the newly formed couple.

We are doing our best to organize the ceremony in English and Romanian. The church is a small rural church and most probably the priest hasn't preached in English before but he will do his best to keep both sides involved.

Sat
Jun 17
2023

5:00 pm
TO 3:00 am

Brilliant Parc - Sala Belvedere (first floor)
Zalau, Salaj 450043
Romania

Brilliant Parc - Belvedere Room (first floor)

Upon arrival, the bride and the groom will be announced and a toast will be offered.

Traditionally the couple will throw their Champagne flutes to the ground. If the glass breaks, it is said to bring good luck to the couple. Other theories say the breaking of the glass symbolizes the irreversible change in the lives of the newlyweds, with a commitment as unchangeable as the breaking of the glass.

Food and drinks will be served for the entire length of the wedding party, so make sure you leave some room for the wedding cake.

The seating arrangement will be kept the same for the length of the party.

Music will be on for the entire party. Once the first dance is done, you are all invited to dance and make sure you have plenty of fun.

Sun
Jun 18
2023

3:00 pm

Casa Romana Porolissum
Castrului Street
Moigrad Porolissum, Salaj 457096
Romania

Farewell Brunch

Farewell Brunch

After all the excitement from the day prior, we’ll love to mingle with the guests and say goodbye to those who traveled near and far to celebrate our special occasion.

The wedding day is packed with overwhelming joy and excitement, and we are aware will not be possible for us to spend time with everyone. This event will allow us to do just that, all while reveling in the prior night's festivities.

Key People
Parents
Rodica & Nelu Mesesan
Rodica & Nelu Mesesan
Roxi’s Parents
Seamus & Bernadette Gormley
Seamus & Bernadette Gormley
James’s Parents
Godparents
Milena & József Fazakas
Milena & József Fazakas
Roxi’s Godparents
Roxi’s close friends going back to University times.
Beverley Maguire & Rob Kelleher
Beverley Maguire & Rob Kelleher
James’s Godparents
Very close friends of James between Ireland, Spain and Dubai.
How To Get To And Around Zalau
How To Get To And Around Zalau
Transport from Airport to Zalau

The car journey time between Cluj Napoca Airport and Zalau is around 1hr 45 min.

Cluj - Napoca Airport to Zalau city-airport-taxis.com 

Average Taxi price for a 4 seater - €79 / Average Taxi price for a 7 seater - €88

In Romania, motorists drive on the right and overtake on the left. Car rental from €50 / day www.sixt.com

Things to do in and around Zalau

Zalau is a small city so we recommend walking around to explore it.

If you are interested in history you can visit Museum of History and Art Zalau. muzeuzalau.ro/

The Ancient Ruins of Porolissum is an archaeological site that dates to the middle Roman Imperial period, AD 106-271 (10 kilometers from Zalau, 20 minutes drive).

Botanical Garden Vasile Fati Jibou (25 kilometers from Zalau, 45 minutes drive). It has a surface of 25 acres (10 ha) and has been arranged inside the architectural ensemble at the Wesselényi residence beginning with the year 1968. www.ccbjb.ro

Suncuius is 80 km away from Zalau, that’s approximately 1 hour and 30 minutes. You can visit Unguru Mare, Farcu, and Crisilui Caves, do rock climbing, or canoe in Cris River. Beautiful place for nature walks.

If you plan an overnight stay there are plenty of good options for accommodation to choose from.

Taxi Services

Local taxi company for Zalau.

Alo Taxi

You can also download their app from the Apple Store and Google Play.

Phone numbers:

+ 40 260 606 060

+ 40 755 300 088

+4 0260960

Hotels
Hotels
Brilliant Meses Hotel

Brilliant Meses is a cozy *** Hotel.  The Pre-Wedding Gathering will be held on the outdoor terrace of this hotel.

If you choose to book here, please use code ROXI & JAMES when reserving via email or telephone to avail the special discounted rate.

This hotel will appear fully booked online, due to our request for the management to block off the rooms.

Address: Piata 1 Decembrie 1918 10A, Zalau, Salaj

450041, Romania

Tel: +40 260 661050

Email: office@brilliantmeses.ro

Hotel Brilliant Plaza

Located in Zalau's historical center, Brilliant Plaza is a **** Hotel, situated around a 10-minute walk from the hotel and the Summer Garden where the Pre-Wedding Gathering will take place.

If you choose to book here, please use code ROXI & JAMES when reserving via email or telephone to avail the special discounted rate.

Address: Maxim D. Constantin Street, No 8, Centru, Zalau, Salaj, 450006, Romania

Tel: +40 260 615062

Email: office@brilliantplaza.ro

Places to visit in Romania
Bran Castle
Peles Castle
Transfagarasan
Vidraru Dam
Bâlea Lake
The Sphinx
Sibiu
Clay castle - Valley of Fairies
Sighisoara
Transalpina Road
Sarmizegetusa Regia
Salina Turda( Salt Mine Turda)
Cluj Napoca
Salicea
Suncuius
Painted Monasteries of Bucovina
Woden Gates of Bârsana
Wooden Churches of Maramures
Cimitirul Vesel, Sapanta
Mocanita Steam Train
Danube Delta
Palace of Parliament, Bucharest
Gallery