Where do I begin? For me, writing this statement of my love for you, my one and only sister can be a whole novel. How do I condense it into only a paragraph? First, I begged Mommy to have you. I was the only girl and had two brothers already. When you came, you drove me crazy. You were so clingy and attached to my hip. You followed me everywhere and always wanted to go out with me. Thus giving you the nickname my “first daughter”. You annoyed me and of course we argued but our relationship has always been solid. Our already close bond changed into something greater. Something we still share till this day. We confided in one another about everything. We provided advice to one another about everything. 8 years apart but you could never tell. I will never forget the day I told you my water broke. It was my first baby. You dropped everything you were doing and took the train 4 hours to make sure you were there for the entire labor and delivery process. This alone is testament to how amazing you are. You are always there for others in need and have sacrificed your time to be there for me. How blessed am I? You have been there for me through all of the greatest challenges of my life and the best blessings of my life. Through it all, you have been one of the sweetest blessings of my life. You are kind and generous, while also being strong, responsible and courageous. I thank God always for listening to me when I was 8 years old and giving me the most wonderful gift of being your sister.
I am extremely happy of the love that you found with Obi. I know that with Obi, you are cared for, protected and most importantly loved. I know that with Obi, God will blessed what has already been written. I am honored to be your Matron of Honor and to be apart of you and Obi’s special day. I do not take that title for granted. As you and Obi embark on this journey, I’ll end here with some advice to a beautiful and successful marriage. Learn the art of compromise, do not give up on one another and never stop being friends. Love always conquers but you have to put in the work. I love you both!
To My Sister, My Accountability & Business Partner ❤️
As I write this, my eyes are welling up with tears of joy. I am so in awe of our journey together. We knew from the moment we met on Empire (University at Albany) that this friendship was something special. This is a divine sisterhood. Why? because without hesitation we’ve protected each other, prayed for each other, and motivated each other. You’ve always been my example of how an ambitious, fearless, loving and powerful woman of God should be. You’ve inspired me to deepen my relationship with God and poured into me when you may not have even known that I needed you to. Oh the places we’ve been my love... Cheers to the places that we will go! You used to always say this to me: We really are God’s favorite children!
As God leads you on this new journey of marriage, rest assured that you are covered, you are protected, and you were created to walk this path. May God forever bless your union to my new brother Obi! Y’all really are life goals! I pray that God continues to pour His love into your union, now and forever!
My dear friend, you deserve this love. Our friendship began over 15 years ago. Throughout that time I have seen you go through so many trials and tribulations but you have taken every wave that life has given you so resiliently. God was with you at each step, guiding you, nourishing you, feeding your mind and your spirit and through Him you have grown into an amazing, high spirited, intelligent women of God. While you were focused on Him, He brought you Obi.
A man that matches your grind and your focus, you two are truly a power couple and I can’t wait to see what your life together will bring. I wish you and Obi a life full of love and so much happiness! #MelaniN2020!! I am so happy and honored to be able to stand by your side on your wedding day as you take this pivotal step into the next chapter of your life. Congratulations Amanda and Obi!!
Amanda, my sister, my confidant, the Ying to my Yang and the one who knows me better than I know myself! From the first day we met we've been inseparable. Going to our freshman seminar I was so nervous and unsure about my school choice, didn't know anyone and wasn't sure I would enjoy my time there. The moment they asked for all athletes to stand in that room is the moment you were stuck with me for life!! In that day alone my heart went from so much uncertainty in my school of choice to knowing instantly that I just gained a friend for life. That friend for life friendship instantly turned into a sister for eternity!
From spending every single day together freshman year to the transfer of schools, to now living on opposite sides of the country we've grown together in life and have been there for each other through it all! I vividly recall all of our 5+ hour phone calls where we would pray for times like this and each other's happiness.
I am so blessed to be able to see how Obi effortlessly makes you the happiest women on earth, it truly makes my heart smile from all over! Obi has gained a permanent spot in my heart as my brother for life! The love that you and Obi have is so incredibly pure and beautiful that I am so gracious I get to stand by your side to witness your union! I pray for nothing but the best for you two in this new lifelong journey. Always remember why you fell in love and most importantly keep God first!
I love you both, my brother Obi and my sister Amanda!
Nina and I met in 2014 when we both competed in the Miss Nigeria USA Pageant. Our instant friendship quickly formed into a sisterhood after spending the whole of that summer together. Nina and I share some amazing memories together that our future children will later laugh and learn from. What I admire most about Nina is her determination, focus, and willingness to push beyond any limit. Her tremendous growth over the years is proof that one can do anything that they put their mind to, as well as prayer works.
Knowing Nina and all that she has experienced, she is more than deserving of the love that Obi and her share. Their love is a true testament of “ask and you shall receive.” I pray that their union is blessed and faithful in Jesus Name.
In a short amount of time, we’ve gone from strangers to sisters. The Miss Nigeria USA pageant will always be a marker in time of the beginning of our sisterhood. Since then, I’ve been honored to celebrate birthdays with you, your relocation, law school acceptance and your beautiful engagement to your soulmate.
Your union with Obi is a constant reminder that when you allow God to write your love story, he will exceed your expectations. I love seeing you so happy and in love. It’s encouraging and heart warming. As you both enter this next chapter, I pray that I am able to witness many more of your milestones as husband and wife.
“Therefore, what God hath joined together, let know man put asunder” Mark 10:9
149 for life!
If there’s anyone I can count on to be a ride or die, it would be Nina. She has this gift of sensing when I’m in need of her support and just shows up for me. Although our friendship is just beginning, I have found myself appreciating her place in my life time and time again. She keeps me balanced in all aspects, and I’ll forever call her sister for that.
Obi and Nina, thank you both for allowing me to be a part of your beautiful love story. You guys are both role models to me and testament to what a God ordained union looks like.
Witnessing the jovial nature of Mel's relationship with Nina and how at-ease he makes Nina feel to the amount of care, tact, & attention to detail Nina uses in caring for my brother is truly amazing. I can't help but remember giving Mel advice that being in a relationship with the person you plan to spend the rest of your life with, should be easy. It shouldn't be stressful, shouldn't be chaotic, shouldn't be forced, or feel like an ultimatum; especially in the boyfriend-girlfriend stage. It should be natural, fluid, easy. Having witnessed their relationship puts me at ease in knowing that their union will truly last the test of time & I'm happy to be a part of it.
I’ve known Mel for almost two decades now and we have come a long way from the good ol’ college days in College Park to the city that never sleeps and the journey continues. I can’t recall the exact moment we became friends but as a fellow Nigerian on campus, we clicked instantly. But one thing that I do recall was the day Melvin discovered Nina’s Instagram profile and I coached his initial steps in courtship of his soon-to-be wife (you're welcome bruv! lol). Okay I might be embellishing a bit but I can say when Mel was catching flights to and from Houston on a bi-weekly basis, I knew he found the “one”. As a witness to his blossoming union with Nina, I can confidently say that what they have is a testament of true love and friendship. Congratulations in advance and I am looking forward to a beautiful day filled with positive vibes, Zanku competitions, and copious amounts of Naija jollof!
Obi is one of my older brothers. I have seen him go through great times and bad times, but he always remains steadfast and focused on his goals. It has been a blessing to watch him find the woman God made for him, and I am honored to be by his side as he prepares to marry Nina.
I’ve known the union of Nina and Melvin now for a little over a year and they complement each other very well. They’re the corniest team I know but thats good cause they’ll be very happy together for a very long time to come. Best of wishes to both!
#MelaniN2020 it's lit!
I don’t remember my life without Amanda (or as many know her as "Nina") in it so when it comes to monumental moments like watching her prepare for marriage every detail matters, not just to me, but to my entire family. Amanda is a smart, funny, charismatic, but most of all, she is the most selfless person I know. As my mother would say, she is the fulfillment of the family & every room she enters. In her, Obi has a one of a kind person with a pure heart who deserves the best.
From the onset of when Obi & I met I could tell he was a man of high character, high ambitions, & I high value. In other words, someone who was worthy of my sister’s love & affection. I’m confident the both of you be able to power through this life together, for a lifetime. Prayers up & blessings down for the bride & groom to be.
Obi is my big cousin that I have come to for certain life advice. I value his insight. I admire the love between Nina and Obi. Since she came in the picture she has urged him to do better and be better. I pray God continues to strengthen and bless your union.
Melvin –
One of my closest friends throughout college, always there to hold me down and give sound advice. One of the reasons I’m grateful for attending University of Maryland, meeting genuine people like you and creating memories that will last a lifetime. From crashing stamp parties, staying out on Route 1 all night, petty theft at the Wawa, Wing Nights, being the worst but coolest RA’s on North campus, to making epic trips to New York City and Dubai. We’ve made so many mistakes in life but that’s all part of the journey. I’m proud of the man you’ve grown into. Even though you copied my style on the fashion tip, I’ve always looked up to you as a model of what a Strong Black Man should be. I couldn’t be anymore excited that you found the missing piece to your life.
It is without a doubt that Nina is the woman for you. Although you’ve accomplished so much, she still pushes you to be the best version of yourself. I’ve seen you enjoying some of the best moments in life, but yet, have never seen you as happy as you are with her. I pray that you give her what I see her give to you. I appreciate you letting me be a part of this matrimony and I cannot wait to witness the love continue to grow. Peace and blessings to the both of you!
I met Melvin in College Park as undergraduates at the University of Maryland, we became good friends during 2006 on our path to joining Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity. We’ve been friends and brothers ever since and have known each other through several phases in life, from undergrad partying through jobs/school and life events. It’s been great growing with and watching Melvin grow and succeed.
When Melvin told me about Nina he mentioned his as well as her relationship with God and I knew he’d found someone right for him, meeting Nina only confirmed it. I’m honored and excited to be part of their special day!
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